This is a guest post from Rhondalynn Korolak, I meet Rhondalynn in New York at the National Publicity Summit and found her to be a great writer.
Do you find yourself asking for THIS and THAT with the Law of Attraction… and not getting the results that you want? The secret to manifesting your desires may be as simple as asking the right question…
The critical question to ask is: WHY do you want the _____ (desire)? Do you believe that getting it will mean that you’ll finally have ____ (the real result you desire)? Is having the ____ (real result) the driving force of you getting the ____ (desire), or is there a much deeper reason _____ (a deeper meaning)?
For example let’s use your profession. WHY do you want to do ____? Do you believe that being a _____ intrinsically means you’ll make more money, have more flexibility, be in charge of your own destiny, be happier or have more satisfaction? Is having a huge bank account the driving force behind your job or is it passion for helping others and confronting new challenges everyday that fulfills you?
In my experience, have the result or desire of happiness, fulfillment or success (or substitute any state of mind that you like) is not enough to drive you toward your goals. Happiness, success and peace are in the here and now. They are not an end destination – something that you drive towards or “try” to obtain. No matter how many goals you set and hours that you work, you will never end up at the train station of happiness or success. You need to get on the train of happiness or success now and see where it leads you. Happiness and success are who you are already – or at the very least, who you are capable of being right now if you choose to be. Therefore, they can’t possibly be something that motivates you to achieve your goals.
If you are currently struggling with a goal or a dream that is not manifesting, I want you to stop right now, sit down and examine what the real and deeper meaning is for you. The real “WHY” that you want to have a result or an outcome. Once you connect to this real WHY – and you will know it when you have stated it because you will connect to some REAL EMOTION – that will be the moment when the tires hit the pavement and you begin to get real traction and momentum towards achieving your goal(s).
From my own experience I can tell you that writing and publishing a book is not easy. If I simply wanted to have happiness or to make a few dollars selling the book, it simply would not have been enough to keep me moving forward when things got tough. For me, the driving force behind the book has always been 2 THINGS (1) I want for my mother’s life to have meant something and for her love and kindness to live on forever and (2) I want to be in a position to financially support children from disadvantaged backgrounds to have the food, clothing, supplies and support that they need to stay in school. (Even writing the words causes me to tear up…)
Now I don’t know what the REAL WHY will be for you….but I do know that when you find it, you will become UNSTOPPABLE and your success will become INEVITABLE!
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Megan’s thoughts:
Isn’t this inspiring… Rhondalynn has been through a lot in her life and has come through it with such passion for what she is doing.
So I ask you what is your REAL WHY? If you don’t know call me and we can figure it out together.
